There is the anecdote about the 80-year-old man who asks the doctor to help make a more intense intimacy. When the physician indicates that advanced age, the patient tells the story of a neighbor who ten years older, and those not less boasts his exploits in bed. Physician reasonably observes: "So tell me please!" Psychology of a woman who not so long ago became a mother, is very similar to the psychology of the hero of this anecdote. If you listen to neighbors talk or read a record of young mothers on the Internet, will inevitably come to a conclusion: I am a bad mother! To meet the views of what should be a good mother, poor woman begins to scramble. As rule, its support in this next of kin, filling up valuable tips on how exactly should behave in a perfect mother. However, the results are discouraging.
Instead of an idyllic picture happy family, often quite different: crocked and snap at all the woman who is tormented by guilt because of the fact that it is something wrong. After all, everyone else so easily obtained to be perfect! Psychologist Alex Vladimir says that this situation arises when the mother is too much focused on social stereotypes, and too little listening to him. According to the most modern concepts, the ideal mother should: – Must have own, without anesthesia, and the more operative interventions (caesarean). Had to make a caesarean? – Begin to suffer feelings of guilt! – Breastfeeding, at least two years before.
The first book is not this one recopilatorio of articles that I publish nor, probably, will be the last one. If it were it, would suppose that it would have died to me. Vice to write, knows it all practice who it, only cures exerting it, as Oscar Wilde with respect to the temptations argued, that the unique way to surpass them is falling in them, according to the exquisite English writer. As age one is deprived already of too many things, of the unique one that fodder not to do without is in the future the one to write what it comes to me in desire. Not always it has been thus, of course. At different moments from the life, one has had to assume diverse labor, social, enterprise, familiar responsibilities, that have limited their freedom of expression. Being father, or neighbor, or newspaper director, or used of office must itself have well-taken care of and so he says himself. It is necessary to heft the words to avoid other people’s susceptibilities, by all means; but, mainly, one does not have to gamble his future cheers irresponsibly and, because soon it happens what happens.
For that reason, now no longer I have left hardly future and that if it exceeds to me something is past, I occur to account of that I go against current. That is to say, that it gives to tell things me that others are silent, in making reflections that others avoid and thinking without subjection to fashions, groups, beliefs or factions. Similar attitude, already you will include you, usually do not content to anybody and yes, however, to arouse the wrath of all. is not of ours, they say in his internal law, and sometimes in the external one, and they satanizan to him to one immediately. Some warned reader will talk back to me that I am assumeing an unwarranted role of victim, since if the things go as badly as I proclaim how it is possible that he writes in so many different means and with so different directions? Nor I know it to I myself, cranme.
When we propose objectives generally this means a change for our lives because it implies to arrive at a wished situation that we do not have her at the present moment, the greater motivation is to visualize to us enjoying the profit, of to have culminated what as much we yearned for. The challenge is to support the adverse conditions of the way and sometimes we asked ourselves, well why they must have difficulties? There are them because the changes represent a sensation of " peligro" for our interior, that is to say our subconscious mind it loves the well-known although the conditions are those of a miserable life, prefers to stay in a same place although that brings some type to us of suffering. Perhaps immediately it is called on to ask to us to us, well how it is possible that our subconscious mind is become attached to which brings suffering to us? What it happens it is that the mental programming does not distinguish between good and the bad thing, simply obeys the beliefs that we have entered, here is where one requires of much value and determination, besides knowing the secrets the forces spiritual. In order to obtain any goal the unique thing that it must do it is to surpass its negative beliefs or ideas that are not in harmony and so now it wishes, in the book Modifying Our System of Beliefs to achieve the success of Steve Alpizar will find all the excellent aspects as far as the form in which the beliefs settle and how to overcome the inertia of the support of the beliefs obstacles, when reading this book you will be in the capacity to include/understand his ingrained ideas in his subconscious mind, but most important she is than she will be able to defeat all circumstance that is in opposed direction of its desires and that it looks for to stop it.